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On February 6, 1924, my parents, Willard
Adam and Verda Surber went to Versailles, Indiana , and were united in marriage. My father lived with his parents, Matthew
and Mary Adam, who lived on the Jefferson County Line south of Marble Corner. My mother lived with her parents , Ephriam and
Mary Surber, who lived one mile east and approximately ‘one half’ mile north of St. Magdalene Catholic Church
with the house
situated on Little Graham creek. Located on the creek was a large round rock with a spring located under a side of the rock. This was the
source of their drinking water, delicious! / cool water. They had a cistern for their other source of water. When
my parents married they moved to a large white house located across the creek from my grandparents. The house sat atop a large
hill overlooking the creek and was known as "the Turkey Thompson" place. Later my Daddy's brother, Leslie, and
his family occupied this house, as weii as, the Robert Knox family from Kentucky and later the Bacil Harmon family from Kentucky The Knox
and Harmon families were good friends and neighbors of my parents. While my parents lived in this house, my parents were blessed with
a baby daughter, Mary June, arriving on June 6, 1926 (This same day Everett and Florence Richardson
of the Bethel neighborhood were blessed with a son, Darrel.).
In a short time my parents bought a little farm just a short distance north and east, and on June 13, 1929,
my parents were blessed with another daughter- me, Norma Lou. Our barn was located close to the creek and during the spring rains,
water came very close to the ham Our house was on a high hill west of the barn
and located on the main road. This farm had been known as "The Robinson" place.
My
earliest recollections of my life begin when I was three or four years old My family consisted of
a loving and hard working father and mother and a sister three years older than me We lived on a
little 50-acre farm with a large garden, chicken house, bam and a 5-room house located on a small hill My
daddy had a team of mules, named Polly and Skeiter
I remember their names well. Polly was smaller than Skeiter, who was taller and bigger. One day while playing in our side yard, the team broke into the yard, running very fast . As they ran between the two cedar trees where I
was playing . my mother came out on the front porch to check on me. I was hugging the trunk of one of the trees as they came
pounding through All I could see were pounding hooves coming my way. I'm sure when they were
gone, I ran to mania as fast as my little legs could carry me. We had a little brown, black, and white dog named Teddy, whom
I loved and with whom I played; wrapping a little
piece of thread around his neck and wrapping it around a chair leg I am told he would stand for hours if I did not untie him. One day, Teddy was missing
and Daddy went across the road to an open field and walked until he found my dog's collar. I was without a dog until one
day my Mother and I walked to a Bethel Ladies Aid
meeting at Herbert and Alice Man's home; I was probably about five years old. When we were ready to start for home, Alice
showed me their new little puppies and told me
I could have one. I was delighted and so off we started walking towards home. It was a long walk and I would carry the puppy for a while, then put her down and rest before
resuming our walk When I arrived at home, after
walking, probably , 4 or 5 miles, I ran to show Daddy my new puppy. Daddy didn't seem too happy about this little white
puppy! I wanted Daddy to be so pleased and I said, "Daddy, what can I call my puppy?" and he said, "well, call her Joopy". So I was delighted and had my little
rat terrier for many years until she passed away
at the age of fourteen We had a horse named Freidie, and a buggy
My mother could drive the horse and buggy. We had a Model T Ford with side curtains. My mother never learned to drive
the Model T; however she would take my sister to
meet the school bus at Bethel School in the buggy where a big yellow school bus would transport the children to New Marion
with a grade school and high school. We lived on our little farm until I was six years old.
My folks had many friends come visit us , Clyde and Goldie Kerns and their son who was between me and my sister in age. came
one Sunday. After our noon meal which, I'm sure, consisted of fried chicken, mashed potatoes, and gravy, green beans,
and sliced tomatoes, and pie After eating and while playing on the outside cellar steps, the boy tailed a black snake and
chopped it with a hoe; I ran screaming to my mother because of all the little snakes which ran out of the snake. I was always
frightened of snakes because another time my sister and I were playing in the creek, Little Graham, which had large ledges;
and was just east of our barn. We had been playing with the Mathews children, a boy, Marshall, one year younger than me and
his sister , lone, a year or two younger than my sister; and, after playing in the creek, we were running back home, with
me on the inside track of a ledge and my sister on the outside when a large water moccasin came out of the ledge and struck
me on my little toe. The pain was not severe but
we were scared and ran to the house crying for mother. In a panic and not knowing what to do, she ran to tall a young chicken
and placed it on my toe. Daddy hurried to the neighbor to get him to help him break the ledge and to retrieve the snake. The
snake was a huge non-poisonous water moccasin,
which the neighbor, Charlie Wiley, killed. My daddy was about as frightened of snakes as I have always been and many times I've heard him tell of the big snake that
was as big as his arm! My mother had a canary which
was in a cage on a hanging stand in the kitchen window. When the canary died, my sister and I put it in a match box and had a funeral for it and buried it beside the garden.
When I went to bed at night, my Daddy always carried
me upstairs to bed, but he always wound the clock, and ate some raisins before he went to bed. Daddy would rock me to sleep
in a big rocker and sing little songs which he
made up as he sang. These many years later, I now have the big rocker in my sun room. Because I was small and frail and would not eat very good, my mother would fix me a warm
glass of milk right after she had milked the cows
She would put sugar and vanilla in it to try to get me to drink it. I'm not fond of milk yet today. After the summer I was six, Mr. Alexander
Thomson came calling and made Daddy an offer on his farm As times were hard , he sold the farm. I was sad to leave because my mother and sister
and I often walked down to my maternal grandparents
to visit them. My grandfather was elderly and sat in a big arm chair by the dining room window on the east side of the house. How long he had been this way, I'm not
sure.
He had a great long white beard and I loved to visit. My grandmother
always had a cookie jar in the dining room cabinet and I was allowed
to get me a cookie. Of course, we had walked through the fields stopping to visit one of my favorites, Stella Caplinger. Stella
lived with her father and I guess her mother had passed away; she
was a favorite friend of our family; so we always stopped to rest and visit with Stella each time we went to visit my grandparents. She, too, always had cookies for the journey. Today, I own
Stella Caplinger's family Bible, having bought it at a farm
sale of Barbara and Virgil Huelson. Barbara and Virgil were our future neighbors, as well as, Barbara was somehow related
to my father, and, perhaps, somehow related to Stella. We walked south of Stella's past a house where my parents
had lived when my older sister, Mary June , was born. Later the home of the Robert Knox family, a family of five or six who
came from Kentucky-a wonderful family as I remember.
They had attractive daughters and sons; one daughter's name was Nell, whom I remember. At least, I remember my parents
speaking well of the Knox family and we visited with them.
The family lived up on a high hill and after passing their house, we walked down the hill to the creek and crossed over the creek to my grandparents. If the creek was up, we would
have to go down the creek a short distance to the
high foot bridge and cross over. My grandmother had a large snowball bush in the front yard and always a large garden. They
carried their drinking water from a spring with a large hanging rock overhead; of course they had a cistern for catching water to wash, bathe, etc.
In the fall we moved to a farm, owned by Mr. Thomson, located west and north of our farm. This was a temporary move
as the former owners, Mr. & Mrs. Simmons, were elderly and were moving back to Indianapolis.
They had a big collie dog and wanted us to take him. We children were delighted; he was a beautiful dog and we loved having
him. I still had my little Joopy, and now we had two dogs. After spending a long cold winter in this home in December, my paternal grandfather died. (I loved to
visit my paternal grandparents too. My grandfather
would talk to me about his shoes which had little holes in the top and he would tell me they were air holes, which I thought was funny . They had a mulberry tree out by the fence and
my little cousin and I would climb up to pick and eat the mulberries. When we went to visit them, my grandmother always had a good dinner; but what I remember about the meal was
her delicious strawberries preserves, and I got
to listen to her radio by earphones while my parents visited. } We had many experiences living here. I still had a small creek
in which to play and I started to school. I loved my bus
driver, Howard Andrews, who, on occasion, would carry me in to the house, if I had happened to go to sleep on the way home.
He was a kind and loving father and we lived a short distance off of the main road, so he would not awaken me, but carry me
to my home. He later had two or three daughters of his own and I always kept in touch with them in his later life. While we
lived in this house, other interesting things happened, such as, in the fall, the house was re-roofed. The gentleman who did
the work was a friend of my family, Red Powers, and as he tore off the old shingles, I picked them up in my little red wagon.
I liked Red and he would talk to me and the work was fun and I was helping! We, also, had an old gentleman, known by some
as "the hermit" He lived in a little shack on the back of our farm and Daddy would take food to him which was left
from our meal and I would go with him to see Leander Hans. He ate mostly cracked corn and his house was not very warm and Daddy checked on him many times that
cold winter. In the early spring of 1937, we moved to another farm that was much closer to "Old Timbers" where Daddy
was working and this was the original plan. The house was a large eight room house with a large glassed in porch. The house
which had been recently remodeled was located back a lane
from the main road. It had a barn, large orchard and we had lots of room for a garden and pasture for our milk cows, pigs,
chickens, ducks, geese, etc. We were farmers and were still able to have our own farm.. Each day my father went to work over at the big barn - tilling the farm grounds, along with
others, maintaining the buildings, cutting firewood, or whatever work was necessary. My father was paid a monthly salary and my mother cared for two daughters. Later we added a baby sister, July 11, 1940. Her name was Wanda Lee and
mother told we girls not to nick name her, but before the week was out, mother called her Peachie and she is known by that
by many people yet today. My mother was a hard working farm lady who milked the two or three milk cows, tended a large garden,
canning 7-800 quarts of food each year.. She picked black berries, cherries, grapes, and apples, besides raising chickens, ducks, and geese. d She picked feathers from the ducks and geese
to make our pillows.
Then, in 1937, I had a serious health problem which required two
surgeries and approximately two years of recovery. I tell you this to remind you of the "depression" years which
had begun the year of my birth. Many trips to the hospital at Batesville and to the doctor (Dr. Geo. S. Row), at Osgood kept
my daddy busy working, as well as, worried. My mother was busy and staying with me at the hospital. My maternal grandmother,
now a widow, came to live with us in 1937-38 and did so until her death in March of
1942.
While I was recuperating many people came to see me. I was unable to go to school from October until the following
May. My sister brought my school assignments home and I was even permitted to take my examinations
at home, but I passed the third grade of school with the help of my family and my teacher, Miss Ruth Haft. The pastor
of Bethel Baptist Church , Rev. Malone came to see me. Mrs. Alexander Thomson would walk over from Old Timbers when she was
there. Many friends, Basil and Eula Harmon and their two children, Jerry and Marjorie came, Florence and Everett Richardson
and Virgil and Barbara Huelson, Lester and Mable Furlough and son, George, and my little playmate, Don Miller. Many others,
too numerous to mention, besides my many relatives ,visited my family and shared with
us. We were eternally grateful and I shall always hold them dearly. My little playmate, Don, son of the caretaker of
Old Timbers, would slip away from home and come to play, he was only five, but his mother,
Hallie, knew he probably was at our house and she would send one of the men to come and get him. Others who came were
Bacil and Eula Harmon with their children, Jerry and Marjorie. Marjorie and I would play for hours out under a shade tree
where we had a bed sheet wrapped around my mother's bean poles , our wigwam, with a batch of green apples and a paring
knife. I don't remember getting a stomach ache! When my daddy came home from work one evening he told us what the government
planned to do. We were shocked and it seemed we had been through so much turmoil, but the war news was not good and the government
did what it had to do - PREPARE - FOR - WAR! We, like many others, wondered why it had be
our homes, farms, churches, cemeteries, schools, and our entire families, parents, children, grandparents, cousins,
aunts, and uncles,-- why this particular area? People were in a state of shock and panic. Where could we find another job,
farm, home, school, friends, and church? But, after checking several different possibilities, and finding nothing to compare,
a decision had to be made before March , 1941. About March 15-31 we were moving to the northern part of Jennings County on
a county road with a farm situated next door to a Baptist Church, Bear Creek, and near to three other families who were friends,
neighbors, and family in the Proving Ground. We were situated, but homesick. We entered the Scipio school in March, many new
faces, made a few friends and only knew the few we had met at the church Sometime in April or May our entire family had the
mumps, baby sister first, then mother, my older sister, and last, Daddy and me. We were all very sick,; one barely able to
go until another would go down. Finally, school was out and I was helping my mother with new baby chickens We still had our
horse, Freidie and our two dogs, Joopy and Rex, our collie, but Rex had come up missing
shortly after leaving the Proving Ground and Daddy had gone back toour old home and Rex came from the garage to meet
him. He thought we were only visiting and he walked the fifty miles to go back home. Thank God for Rex, Daddy and God's
love and care of us! Life was not to be the same, just yet.
In July we had a severe electrical storm, lightning
struck our house and it burned to the ground. We were devastated again. Daddy and I had gone to the barn to scoop oats which had just been threshed and had broken through the floor. Not knowing
that the house was on fire, my mother called us and , with no telephone, no one knew. I was told to hold my baby sister in
the car and blow the horn. My mother and daddy tried to carry canned goods, which my mother had canned, tried to keep my grandmother from going back into the house and, I'm sure my sister was grabbing anything she could
get from the burning house. Very few things were saved; however my mother and daddy dragged the piano down over the porch
which later took six men to load on a truck. We were fortunate to have known the doctor, Dr. Norton, who had treated us when
we all had the mumps, because he owned a little farm in Decatur County and north of our home. He had a small five-room house,
which he said we could move into until a new house could be built at the present location. Daddy had to travel back to the
farm daily to care for the livestock for approximately ten months. In March of 1942 my maternal grandmother passed away and
we returned to the original farm for a few years. We had gone
to the Decatur school while living in Dr. Norton's house and Daddy had us transferred there for the remaining years until
my sister graduated from high school in 1944. The years we attended the Decatur school are remembered with fondness as we
were once again able to attend school with the families who we knew in the Proving Ground. In the fall of 1944, we moved into Bartholomew County and I attended Columbus High School until my graduation in 1947. This was difficult
for me, because I was now without my sister and the Columbus school was so much larger than to what I had been accustomed.
I have told my story from beyond the Proving Ground to explain the affect of the move upon my life. I realize life
goes on for everyone, but circumstances do change our lives in unexpected ways. I'm thankful for my life and all the things
I have experienced. I thank God for His care and guidance and I'm grateful for my
family and the many friends I've made along the way.
Norma Lou Adam Irwin July, 2005
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